Nancy L. Neff
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Late August 2014 Dreamer Sight Newsletter

Hello, and a last bit of August Abundance to you!
Welcome, or welcome back, to my newsletter. The picture above, taken with the sun setting behind me, makes me think of saying goodbye to the long sunny summer days, while eagerly looking forward to the new learning ahead. This time of year always feels like "back to school" to me. Today's issue has a vision article and one about emotions which applies to vision as well as to many other areas of Life. Enjoy!

Vision: Why should I practice with an eye chart?
People starting vision improvement can quickly get overwhelmed with the many different eye exercises they hear about, or the various programs or devices available promising to sharpen eyesight. After avoiding the eye chart myself for years, I finally saw its value. It does not have to be a test (which I used to fail regularly in the eye doctor's office) -- it can be a simple valuable tool for improving your vision. You can find eye charts on-line and print one to use for yourself for free. Here is one example (scroll down past the first page of a legal notice and some technical notes).

For more on my personal experience with the eye chart, click here.

What is secondary gain?
My EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) teacher Carol Look often talks about helping to move people out of a stuck state. She'll ask "What's the benefit to staying where you are?". If nothing comes to mind, she'll then ask "What might be the drawback to moving forward?". One of these usually sheds some light.

Perhaps someone has had a back injury for years which won't heal. Although the person says he wants to get better, if he did, he'd lose his workman's compensation payment and have to go back to his job! Yes, quite a powerful reward for not healing. Secondary gain is just this, a hidden payoff to what seems to be a negative situation. Carol Look teaches if you're stuck, there's always secondary gain.

Life is full of sacrifices and trade-offs, and I doubt if anyone ever has 100% of what he or she wants in all areas, career and health and relationships and family. However if you seem to be in a holding pattern, saying you want to move ahead but going nowhere, could there be a reason for this you haven't been willing to face? The more honest we are with ourselves, the better the choices we can make, and the happier our lives will be.

If you're unfamiliar with EFT, you'll find a brief description here, so you can better understand its power.

I welcome your questions and comments
Let me know what you've wondered about concerning vision or dreams or EFT. I'd be glad to write a short article for you. I hope you've enjoyed your Summer if you're in the Northern Hemisphere, or your Winter otherwise. Have a wonderful finale to your August, and I'll be in touch again soon.