Nancy L. Neff
Vision and Dreams Coach
Email: Nancy@dreamersight.com
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Early September 2014 Dreamer Sight Newsletter

Hello, and a very special September to you!
Welcome, or welcome back, to my newsletter. The picture above is a mix of light and shadow, just like our environment this time of year, as we approach the equinox in a few weeks. Allow your eyes to enjoy the light, drinking in the colors and clarity. Are you able to appreciate the darkness too? It's a chance to rest your eyes and mind, rather than straining to see more. Perhaps you notice that you can see a lot after dark, movement and depth and shapes. All vision is a precious gift.

Today's issue has an article about eyes, and one about EFT and emotions. Enjoy!

Vision: Look into your eyes!
No, this is not about self-hypnosis. You may have realized that few people are comfortable looking into someone else's eyes. Perhaps they feel too vulnerable. Or they have a secret they're hoping to hide, and they sense that someone looking into their eyes may guess it. How does it feel to you to face yourself in a mirror and gaze into your eyes? Do you see a secret you've tried to hide from yourself, or do you see love and appreciation?

To read about what I've learned from looking at my eyes, click here.

EFT: What is the real issue?
My EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) teacher Carol Look has cautioned us many times about jumping in and tapping right away on the problem the client brings to us. If we take the time to listen and dig deeper, the problem may turn out to be something very different. Several clients of mine have been proving Carol right lately.

One client was pressuring herself to get everything done, not allowing time for rest and fun. We discovered her older sister was bossy with her when she was a child, demanding she get all her chores done. Now she had taken on that behavior and was doing this to herself, even though she didn't need to.

Another client got extremely annoyed at a man who glanced at her appreciatively. He obviously thought she was attractive, which she is. She did not let herself enjoy this non-verbal compliment, though -- she pushed it away. So she missed a chance to feel good about herself.

If you find yourself saying "I've always had a temper" or "Everyone in my family has problems with money", and assuming the situation can't be changed, why not look a little deeper? When did you first start believing this? Can you imagine yourself without this bad habit? This is the type of automatic pattern which EFT can help bring to awareness, then loosen and remove.

If you're unfamiliar with EFT, you'll find a brief description here, so you can better understand its power.

I welcome your questions and comments
Let me know what you've wondered about concerning vision or dreams or EFT. I'd be glad to write a short article for you. Enjoy this rich month of September, and all the learning it brings to you. You'll hear from me again in a couple of weeks. Take care!